This used to be a fun house but now it’s a sad house.

Sadhouse by Sam Rennocks

Somewhere down the line, most of my guy friends decided I was the go to female to ask about relationships. I don’t know if it’s because I like superheroes and zombies, but my opinion definitely matters to my dude-bros.

Lately there has been an overwhelming number of guys that are having women issues in my life. I don’t know if it’s something in the air or if women are getting crazier but a lot of nonsense has been taking place. I mean complete nonsense! Chicks getting back with their guys only to mess with their heads, asking to go to fancy restaurants with no intentions of being with the guy, the list is endless and not unheard of. Us ladies tend to have evil moments but it doesn’t make it okay.

Being that I am female, I do love being spoiled and attention but I also like to be an equal. For the countless amount of times that I have heard a woman talk about how a guy is an ‘asshole’, we need to also take note of our actions and intentions.  That guy has probably dated and had shit experiences in the past and expecting history to repeat itself. This is what leads the guy to be said ‘asshole’. Or he could be an actual asshole and in that case, keep it movin’!

The largest bit of advice I can give anyone, male or female is COMMUNICATE. When you are hiding things, and not being honest, and plotting and just carrying on with complete fuckery it’s not benefiting you. Just because someone bought you an expensive gift or meal, that doesn’t define you or make you a better person. Talk about how you feel about the person (or don’t feel about the person) and find that person that suits you. It’s about complimenting one another not completing one another.

Really love zombies,

Latanya Rene

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4 Responses to “This used to be a fun house but now it’s a sad house.”

  1. Coco Bates says:

    I love this it’s so true though. I think one of the top reasons why relationships fail is because there is a lack of communication

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  2. You had me at “I don’t know if it’s because I like superheroes and zombies, but my opinion definitely matters to my dude-bros.” New follower from KV’s Confessions. I knew I’d like you just by your blog title. And yes, we ladies need to remember that we’re not exactly saints while we run around telling guys they’re assholes. We’re assholes too.

    • Aw! Thank you for reading my blog! We can be assholes and once we own up to that…it’s half the battle. Come back because stuff is going to get fun! <3 So many ideas and projects lined up. Tell your friends and i'll make you all cupcakes. xxxo.

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